another sad loss

**ButterflyForever** · April 6th, 2010, 08:43 PM

hi ladies
got a tough couple of days ahead, my friend just found out lost her baby at 25 weeks.
I will be with her (as her doula & friend) throughout her labour tomorrow, as her beautiful baby arrives.
Hope I can hold it together for her (it's the same hospital I had my daughter in, I so hope it's not the same delivery room), want to make what little time she has with baby the best it can be, under the circumstances,
Spare a thought for her, light a candle in memory of her precious little one,

**Aries** · April 6th, 2010, 08:48 PM

Sending you all the strength in the world for tomorrow.

Such a horrible situation to be in - my thoughts are with you both.

**~breeze~** · April 6th, 2010, 08:52 PM

Thinking of your friend, her family & friends during this hard time

Sending extra

to you, what a beautiful friend you are. I hope its not the same delivery suite as I'm sure its already going to be so hard for you as it is.

Sending lots of love & strength to you & your friend for tomorrow

**Epacris** · April 6th, 2010, 08:59 PM

Thinking of your friend, her family and you.

Sending you all my strength and warmth.

Fly free beautiful baby.

Rachel.

**feeb** · April 6th, 2010, 08:59 PM

Thinking of you and your friend at this hard time.

May your angel give you strength to help your friend say good bye to her angel.

xoxo

**Miss.B** · April 6th, 2010, 09:15 PM

Oh dear, such sad news about your dear friend. I will be thinking of her tomorrow, and I'll say a little prayer for her little angel. Wishing you both much strength to get through this very sad and hard time.

**Nai** · April 6th, 2010, 09:17 PM

Sending you and your friend strength

**Ryatha** · April 6th, 2010, 09:22 PM

sending both of you

and strength

**Liviam** · April 6th, 2010, 09:24 PM

Tomorrow is going to be a hard day for you, my thoughts are with you. You will be an amazing support for your friend tomorrow. Sending you and your friend strength and courage tomorrow.

**TeniBear** · April 6th, 2010, 09:35 PM

So sorry for your friend...

Hope you both stay strong tomorrow, and it's not too traumatic...

**tk1999** · April 6th, 2010, 10:00 PM

My love and thoughts are with you and your dear friend

**chody47** · April 6th, 2010, 10:02 PM

I am so sorry to hear of your friends loss. Good luck for tomorrow.

**diannescruffy** · April 6th, 2010, 10:11 PM

So sorry for your friends loss

sending you both strength for tomorrow. I have done this recently for a friend and for me it was a beautiful healing process, I pray that it will also be for you. Will be thinking of you both tomorrow.

Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks

**Stace** · April 6th, 2010, 10:41 PM

I am so very sorry to hear about your friend.

I lost my baby at 23 weeks in January, and I think that it is such an amazing and selfless thing you are doing. To have some one there who understands and can support her during such an emotional time will be the best thing any friend could do.

My heart goes out to you and her, and I will light a candle & offer a prayer for her baby tomorrow.

**Peg** · April 6th, 2010, 10:45 PM

so sorry to hear the sad news

I cant imagine how difficult it is going to be for you both

**dory** · April 6th, 2010, 11:08 PM

Butterfly - you are truly amazing and giving your friend the most amazing gift. Embrace the love and the heartache tomorrow. I am so sorry for your friend, and her angel bub. In time when she's up to it, let her know that lots of gals here are thinking of her and wishing her all the best, as we are for you.