thread: Do I email first or open a dispute?

  1. #1
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    Aug 2006
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    Do I email first or open a dispute?

    Hello, received a dodgy ebay item today - one piece is broken, so hoping to return it and get a refund of the cost + initial postage. I'm a bit confused though, are you supposed to contact the seller directly first or are you supposed to open a dispute in paypay and negotiate it there?

    Bit nervous because after a few years this is the first problem I've had - not a bad run considering how many things I've bought Also I'm a bit worried that it may be a complicated process as the initial listing has some creative English in it so I'm hoping there's not going to be a language barrier there.

  2. #2
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    Dec 2007
    Queensland
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    Email the seller first if it can't be resolved send the dispute! I'd give them till tomorrow night to reply then take action I have never had a problem with ebay yet either but thank goodness for paypal hey!!!

  3. #3

    Aug 2009
    Yarra Valley, Victoria
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    Yeah definantly contact the seller first and see what they can do, if it's not good enough then open a dispute. Good Luck!

  4. #4
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    Dec 2007
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    Good luck with it! Definitely contact the seller first and explain the situation, most sellers are more than happy to refund/exchange items and postage fees providing the buyer contacts them first and is civil in their dealings (Which I know you will be!)
    A lot of sellers I know (just friends who do it as a side business or hobby sort of thing) get really annoyed when a dissatisfied buyer just jumps straight in and opens a dispute or gives negative feedback without first asking if the seller can do anything to set the wrongs right - they've not had a chance to fix it up or defend themselves and they feel it's unfair.

    I really hope the seller is understanding and accommodating! It's very annoying not getting what you paid for, on the few odd occasions it's happened to me the sellers have been very understanding and prompt in dealing with my complaints. Fingers crossed for you that this seller is one of the good ones

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    Thanks everyone, I thought that was right but I got a bit confused when I read the Paypal thing, sounded like you were supposed to do it all there in the first instance, kwim?

    Actually I feel a little sheepish, I assumed they were seconds from a good quality brand (they look just like it, and the photo on the box looks like pieces of that brand) BUT open the box & some of the pieces look like seconds (similar quality to the set i have but with a tiny mistake in the paint) and the other pieces are a really bad made-in-China rip-off, one piece even has a huge chunk missing out of it. I will check it out a bit more carefully next time.