We currently have two children in our care long term, one in the process of adopting and the other hopefully we can adopt her too. They have three siblings in care that are with another foster carer that has made a false claim against us. I was just wondering if anybody else has had hassles with another foster carer? this man still hasnt got over that docs placed Tyson with us.
Now he wants us to not be on the contact visits and I said no way, Tyson will fret without us and I dont trust this man at all around Tyson or Kiara. Some docs workers have warned us in the past that he is a manipulator, sure is. On visits in the past we always meet on neutral places, he kept on inviting us to his place for bbqs, we refused, tried to get us to have the siblings once a month, one weekend respite care as he is in poor health. He didnt even supervise the boys properly on the visit, just keep on going on and on about docs, blah blah blah, my husband ended up having to supervise than he turns around and stabs us in the back. I'm fumming!
I believe this man needs counselling and told the caseworker that too, he has a picture of him and Tyson as his profile pic on facebook. Yes I got rid of him quick smart as a friend on facebook!
Thank god the police and docs dont believe his false claim, it scares me though thinking what stunt is he going to pull next *sigh*
This man sounds very strange. I would make sure you keep Tyson's caseworker fully informed and other than making sure all visits are suprivised and keeping your contact with him minimal, I am not sure there is much else you can do.
I agree . And maybe write down any contact with him in case you need it as a diary for future reference to back up anything that you need to prove. Don't you hate it when people cause unnecessary drama! After all it is supposed to be about the kids welfare.
Thanks both of you for your replies, I'm glad I kept a copy of all the emails to him in past about contact visits! can you believe he had the nerve to complain about the emails with the photos of Tyson blocking up his email system! after that I stopped sending him photos and will send them to docs worker instead. I went out of my way to make and effort to get along with him for the sake of the kids, otherwise I wouldnt have anything to do with him. Out of all the lovely foster carers out there we sadly are stuck with a nutter and they know it too, a few workers warned us about him..I gave him the benefit of the doubt at first, sadly, they were right. He's nothing but a manipulator and drama queen. DH said he should've been a car salesman, lol
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