thread: Sling newbie here!

  1. #1
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    Oct 2006
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    Sling newbie here!

    So, bubba # 2 is on the way and I need help choosing a sling, as I didn't even know there were such things when DS was a bub (really, really wish I had!)

    Can someone give me a list of the slings available and a basic run down of the differences between them?

    Thanks so much

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    Dec 2007
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    From my limited knowledge you have ring slings, other slings (not sure of exact names) and then wraps, soft structured carriers, half buckle carriers, mei tai's - oh the list goes on and on!! lol

    But for a newborn, I would probably recommend something like a wrap - either a hug a bub, or a close carrier, if you didn't want the hassle of a hug a bub. I always thought it was too difficult with all that fabric, and I got myself a wrap, and yep, I couldn't work it out. Whereas the close carrier has already done the work for you, you just slip it on and adjust it to your size. Perfect for newborns.

    I don't mind ones like a peanut shell sling or a ring sling, except they can pull on your shoulder or neck and not as comfy. But in the newborn days, thats really not that much of a problem, its when they get heavier that it starts to annoy me.

    Or you can get a mei tai like a baby hawk, kleinsmekker - heaps of options out there - I have a kleinsmekker, and its soooo comfy. So thats good for a newborn too.

    Soft structured carriers like an Ergo or Beco or Dream Carrier - are better (i think) when bubs is about 3 months and older.

    I have my kleinsmekker and my Beco and just lusting after a beetlebum half buckle at the moment, and then my stash of carriers will be complete.. LOL

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    Lots of different types - a quick (read: newborn is asleep so will do my best) precis of the different types available are:

    Pouch: (eg: peanut shell)
    Good in and out carrier but must be sized exactly to the wearer (otherwise difficult to get good, safe positioning and will cause discomfort). Great for smaller babies but not as good as a weight bearing carrier.

    Ring Sling (eg: Maya Wrap Lightly Padded Ring Sling, Bear Hug Baby:
    Much more flexible version of a pouch - one shouldered carrier with adjustment via the rings. Preferable to a buckle sling as it allows full adjustability across all areas of the sling to get a perfect fit for any wearer. Comes in many different shoulder styles/fabrics. Depending on the fabric strength, can be suitable for both newborns and toddlers. (Eg: double linen, or woven wrap conversions are great for toddlers).

    Buckle Sling (eg: Baba Sling, Bubba Moe, Baby Rock)
    A supposedly 'easier' version of a ring sling. Too similar to the recalled Infantino slings which are also referred to as 'bag slings'. They tend to have a very deep pouch and limited adjustability - meaning that they are rarely comfortable for wearer (especially petite wearers), and can be dangerous for newborns/young babies with little head control when used in cradle position as the pouch is too deep and does not allow correct posture. Whilst some people like them, and they can be used safely if cautious, I would never recommend these types to anyone. Period.

    Mei-tai: (eg: CatBirdBaby, BabyHawk)
    a two shouldered carrier, also known as an ABC (asian baby carrier). The basic design is a rectangular body with two long straps at shoulders, and two straps at waist. Although tying can be tricky to start with, like a ring sling it offers a good balance between ease of use and flexible adjustability.

    SSC (soft structured carrier - eg: Ergo):
    Similar to a mei-tai - based on the same design, but with a more heavily structured waist (usually worn on the hips rather than the waist), and buckle straps at shoulders. Whilst these are great for ease of use, different types will suit different wearers better. Petite wearers may find it difficult to find a SSC where the shoulder straps can be tightened sufficiently, or that don't slip in a ruck back carry.

    Stretch Wrap (eg: hug-a-bub)
    Great for newborns, small babies due to the flexibility of the fabric, a wrap is the ultimate in comfort/adjustability (no buckles etc) but has the steepest learning curve. Stretch wraps should only be used in front carries, they aren't recommended for back carries. Stretch wraps can easily be made from cotton jersey.

    Woven Wrap (eg: Didymos, Storchenwiege, Girasol, Vatanai, etc, etc).
    A 'step up' in support for those who are finding a stretch wrap unsupportive, woven wraps are specially woven for babywearing. Many different carries are possible (a variety of front, back and hip carries, using wraps of various different lengths), and again, whilst wrapping has a much greater learning curve than using any other type of carrier, once mastered, it is potentially much more comfortable than any other carrier. There is also the 'squish' factor of using lovely soft fabric to wear your child. There are many, many different types of wraps available, with different types having different qualities (eg: thickness, cushiness, support etc) which make them more suitable for cool or warm weather wearing, or for newborn or toddler wearing. There are sites such as thebabywearer which can help with what specific type of wraps would suit a particular wearer as it can be a little daunting for beginners.

    Hybrid: carriers like the Close Carrier, which is like a cross between a ring sling and a stretch wrap - stretch fabric fastened with rings. Very popular for newborns.

    HTH!

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    DH loves wearing the baba sling around the household when we've got a newborn in the house. We bought it as DD was way under the 3kg minimum limit that a baby bjorn sling suggests. I personally don't like the sling too much, apparently it can be worn many ways, I've got the brochure to proove I just can't use it as it suggests. So a thumbs down from me, but thumbs up from DH.

    I quite like the baby bjorn sling, pretty commercial I know - but its so easy to put on, adjust and take off - I love it!

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    Suse is the expert on slings, I'm just learning. Pouches - that was the word I was searching for and never got it!! Bloody baby brain.

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    Although you can tell how carrier-centric I am Mel - I didn't include a 'Bjorn' category LOL. But seeing as they are the most commonly bought type I figure they need no further advertisement. Except to say that if you do buy one, and you don't find it comfortable (as many people don't) - there are many, many alternatives LOL!

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    Although you can tell how carrier-centric I am Mel - I didn't include a 'Bjorn' category LOL. But seeing as they are the most commonly bought type I figure they need no further advertisement. Except to say that if you do buy one, and you don't find it comfortable (as many people don't) - there are many, many alternatives LOL!
    Really? I find it so comfy, I must be one of the few

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    Hey, if it works for you Leesa - great! (Even though I don't like them myself, I try not to pay out on Bjorns too much, because unlike the bag slings which can potentially be dangerous, Bjorns aren't actually dangerous, and there's no evidence to support the suggestion that they are bad for a baby's spine, but they can be uncomfortable, especially in facing out position).

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    Ok, so am I right in thinking that I'll probably need more than one, as in one for the newborn stage and another as my little monkey gets bigger? In that case a pouch or stretchwrap would be my first step and then maybe move on to something else?

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    Ok I have a stash for slings/carriers

    First I bought a baby Bjorn Synergy, had to wait ages for DD to be big enough to go in it :rollseyes: I found it comfortable for quite a while as she was a small bubs, DH also found it comfy, but as she got heavier I couldn't use it anymore.

    Then I was given a Bubba Sling, DD wasn't a big fan of it, we didn't use it a lot when she was little and I felt there wasn't enough airflow into it and she would get quite sweaty.
    But the Bubba Sling was fabulous when I wore her on my hip, it was soo quick and easy and really took the weight off and gave me my arms back and she loved the side sitting position.

    I then bought an ergo, used it for a while with DD, but got pregnant again and not allowed to use it, and as we aren't going out atm even as a family other wise DH would wear it.

    I have recently picked up a close carrier, I wanted something soft and comfy, that I could BF using, and also keep Flicker close to me, yet still easy to use And got a super bargain on EBAY a few weeks ago I couldn't pass up, less than half price brand new!

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    Ok, I've been thinking about this ....

    Having two toddlers and a newbie, I'm thinking I need a new sling (ok, so this may be an excuse to buy something for bubs as we've got everything else we need ), so I can have the toddlers in the pusher, then the newbie in the sling - for which I don't generally like the Bjorn for newbies....

    Will continue stalking for suggestions - those hug a bubs (which a friend put on me when DD was young) seemed sooo difficult and tricky.