thread: I got a compliment!

  1. #1
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    6,900

    I got a compliment!

    Yes, about gentle parenting! I almost died of shock! I have been away for a few days with family and it was from my Aunty who has always been vocal about how she thinks things I do like BLS, not letting DD CIO, using a sling, etc are ridiculous! Well, she hasn't seen her for ages anyway but this is what she said to me!!

    DD: (talking away about stuff)
    Her: She's very bright isn't she?!
    Me: Yep! (lol)
    Her: You should be very proud, you're doing a really good job.
    Me: Well it's only been 19 months, haha
    Her: No, seriously. I mean you've done some stuff that we all thought was crazy and out there but it's obviously working, you should be really proud of yourselves.
    Me:

    Wow! Then later I had my Nan tell me I was doing a good job too and that I should be proud!! Really made my day. I was disappointed because I thought that they thought I wasn't doing a good job. But I'm glad that I had time to spend with them and they could see DD for a few days and see how awesome she is and that what I'm doing works for me!

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Nov 2005
    Sunshine Coast
    1,142

    That's great!

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Nov 2006
    brisbane
    3,975

    Thats great hun...and you are doing a great job, your DD is very lucky to have you x

  4. #4
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    In a Nice Safe Space
    1,002

    That's great Heaven! Nice to get positive feedback especially from those you love.

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Oct 2008
    Victoria
    4,601

    Aw, that would've made you feel absolutely wonderful!

  6. #6
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Perth,WA
    2,942

    Well done!

    It's always nice getting compliments and positive feedback Obviously your DD is a credit to you and everyone can see that

  7. #7
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2008
    3,132

    Woohoo!!! That's awesome! It's great that your family acknowledge your parenting.

    There is a really interesting article on the attachment parenting website today about a mum that went against the grain and her family thought she was crazy but followed her instincts anyway. I might see if I can find a link for you

  8. #8
    Registered User

    Jul 2007
    melb
    8,498

    Woo hoo thats great!

  9. #9
    Registered User

    Jan 2008
    2,037

    That's fantastic

  10. #10
    Registered User

    Sep 2007
    Brisbane
    5,729

    She is right, you are a great mum .

  11. #11

    Oct 2008
    2,880

    That's fantastic!! xxxx

  12. #12
    Registered User

    Sep 2008
    South West Sydney, NSW
    2,454

    That is wonderful

  13. #13
    Registered User

    Apr 2007
    in lactation land
    3,776

    Well done Heaven!

  14. #14
    BellyBelly Life Subscriber

    Jan 2006
    11,633

    Well there you go
    We already knew that, but never mind

  15. #15
    Registered User

    Jul 2008
    summer street
    2,708

    Yay! We are slowly taking over!

    We know they're just stating the obvious!

  16. #16
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    6,900

    THanks guys! It was just nice to hear that, after always feeling like I have to defend my decisions to them because they think I'm some crazy hippy, LOL.

  17. #17
    Registered User

    Mar 2007
    6,979

    That's awesome H!

    I love it when people acknowledge what a great parent we are. Even though we know it . It just tops it off huh?!

    Our babies are better off being gentle parented......so many reasons why!

  18. #18
    Registered User

    Apr 2008
    Melbourne
    6,745

    It's wonderful to get a compliment! Well done!