Hi just wanted to pick your brains about a reading that my uncle and aunt had with a clairvoyant. They went to hear from their mother (my grandmother) who died this year. Apparently her spirit came through weakly but as she was a 'new spirit' she couldn't say much. However apparently my mother (their sister-in-law) came through. She died 14 years ago. The bit I am asking about is the weird stuff she is supposed to have said. Firstly she said that she worked hard all her life. This is true and something she was very proud (and at the same time resentful of) in her life. Then she said to say hello to another Aunt (not present at the reading). This is the bit that flummoxes me. She didn't like this Aunt! Also she made no mention of my brother and me nor her only grandchild, my son who was born last year!!! Is this just a rubbish reading and the clairvoyant picked a common name out of the air and it just happened to be a name of one of our family or can this happen??
Difficult to say if it was rubbish or not. Maybe your Aunt that passed & was saying 'hello' to the sister she didn't like was in jest? Was your deceased Aunt a joker? I know when I had a reading & my grandfather came through, he only had a message for me - my sister was there & no message for her or any other family members. Your Aunt might not have mentioned your brother as he might not believe in clairvoyants & what they can do? I know when I asked for my DH grandparents to come through - they didn't say anything b/c they were non-believers (thats what the psychic told me anyway)
Do you think maybe she was being sarcastic, ie "Hello xyz..." because she wasn't there. KWIM?
I wouldn't say it was a rubbish reading. Sometimes the people giving the messages don't always understand them properly, just as those who are receiving them.
Maybe there is more to it. Maybe your Aunt thought that those who were close to her would of already knew she was thinking of them. And this Aunt that she asked to pass the message on too was more of a "i'm sorry lets resolve things"...
I think it's hard to randomly pick out 2 names (ie mum and the aunt), sometimes the message they have to give isn't the msg others expect to receive, it doesn't mean it's rubbish. IYKWIM.
I am thinking she is already in contact with you, so to say 'say hello' to the aunt she didn't really like while alive means she hasn't been visiting her iykwim?
I also think since it was one aunt who went, it makes sense your mum would mention the other ones...it doesn't mean she's not thinking of you.
Thanks everyone! Arcadia I think that makes sense although my mother is not in contact with me and has never been. Although like others have said, I can see how the clairvoyant may misinterpret my mother's message if it was her. My mum had a very sharp biting wit and could be very sarcastic! My brother does believe in clairvoyants and even has a bit of a sixth sense himself (he sometimes goes to a spiritualist church) and he also has never seen or heard from her. So I still cannot fathom why we never get a mention in everybody else's contact with her.
It may have been rubbish or it may be your Mum and your Aunt, whilst not liking each other during this life, have a spirit/karmic relationship to work through. I dont know that we carry grudges when we pass. I imagine your Mum has resolved those issues and providing a message to your Aunt is part of that process.
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