For Skybie, mummydreamer, Ahurani and RockingBaker

**LionsandBears** · January 27th, 2012, 02:21 PM

I'm sorry to include you all in one message. It's just that I'm thinking of all of you as you near the anniversaries of the birth and deaths of your beautiful, cherished babies, Jack, Josiah, Hayley and Sophie.

I know how difficult it is in the lead up to the anniversary. You relive each day as though it's happening again. I found it difficult on the day, not just the date. Be gentle with yourselves and let the tears fall as they will. I found the lead up worse than the actual day, but everyone is different.

I know we've all had different experiences. Some stillbirth, some death just after birth or SIDS. We share the endless grief, love and pride in our babies no longer with us.

I wish you lots of love, support and strength in the upcoming days and weeks. Cry, remember and rejoice in the love for your darling child. I am so sorry your babies aren't home with you planning their first birthday. I know how heartbreaking that is. I hope you are all able to do something lovely to honour them on their birthdays.

For anyone else who lost their darling baby this time last year, who I have not mentioned, I am sorry and wish you strength and peace as well.

***LittleMissSummer*** · January 27th, 2012, 02:23 PM

Have been thinking of you ladies so much lately.

**PumpkinZulu** · January 27th, 2012, 02:58 PM

to all. It's also nearly two years since Ianto was born

**ElleJay** · January 27th, 2012, 03:57 PM

Beautiful - lots of love to you ladies

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk - even though I should be cleaning or sleeping

**~Hestia~** · January 27th, 2012, 04:10 PM

love to you all, and to your precious babies

**Ahurani** · January 27th, 2012, 04:13 PM

Aw Tash that's beautiful thank you

I subconsciously know its coming and it's coming up really fast. It's weird, I kind of don't know what to feel anymore itms. I definately couldn't have got to where I am without alot of support from so many people.

I think about your boys alot too <3

**Diamond Girl** · January 27th, 2012, 04:16 PM

Hugs to you beautiful ladies

**AndiE** · January 27th, 2012, 04:21 PM

Tash, you have an incredibly beautiful heart to be thinking of others when you also have been through so much.

Thinking of you all and sending you hugs and strength, xx

**buffy1** · January 27th, 2012, 04:45 PM

Thinking of you all and your precious babies x

**The[cookie]Doctor** · January 28th, 2012, 11:12 AM

Thinking of you all xX

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**kelebek** · January 28th, 2012, 11:20 AM

thinking of you all

**diannescruffy** · January 28th, 2012, 11:26 AM

You are all in my thoughts.

Regards,
Dianne

**Liviam** · January 28th, 2012, 11:35 AM

Thinking of you all beautiful ladies and your precious angel babies

**skybie** · January 28th, 2012, 11:39 AM

*Cue blubbering*
Thank YOU sweet lady, thank you for reaching out, thank you for your messages of love and support.
Im a bit like A, not really sure what to feel or what we're suppose to do...celebrate, hide away from the day.
DF and i were imagining what he'd be like if he was still here last night, we decided he'd already be walking and getting into all sorts of mischief!
Thank you everyone xxx

**TeniBear** · January 28th, 2012, 11:48 AM

Huge

s and

to everyone coming up to their bub's birthdays soon - named here or not. You WILL survive this. You might not know how, it might come from hiding in bed all day crying, but you will do it.

Giant thanks to PZ for mentioning Ianto too

You've no idea how much it makes me smile knowing people remember