thread: His Memory...

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    Oct 2005
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    His Memory...

    I've been internalizing these thoughts but it's time I say it out aloud.

    I'm worried I'll forget Reid. I mean I know I won't forget him but I'm worried his memory will fade.

    Something when this babe is moving and kicking I forget that he's not Reid.

    I'm happy we're having another boy but I also think why couldnt we just have been able to keep Reid.

    So many emotions at the moment. Fear seems to be a dominant one at the moment.

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    Dec 2007
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    Many to you, pregnancy after loss is tough, I can assure you that your fear and emotions are totally normal.

    Regards,
    Dianne

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    Thanks Dianne.
    xx

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    Hugs Sara x

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    Couldn't read and not reply. I cannot imagine how hard it must be. xxoo

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    Awwww Sara have you thought about writing your memories of Reid down somewhere? or even recording them? There are some gorgeous keepsake books you can buy where they let you record things into them, maybe that will help? I know you wont ever forget him, but sometimes when it's hard to remember, having something tangible that you can read or listen to might help. it will also help get the details down right so that they don't get fuzzy over time kwim?

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    Xxx love u sweety he won't be forgotten