Yep I have it & I love it!! I just have a tiny diamanté in it & I love how it looks!

Pain wise, I would say it's fine. I've had a few piercings over the years & this one definitely hurt the least. I've also had tongue & labret, back in my rebel days. This one was fine though. You can hear it!

I got around the headphone thing once I'd had it for a bit, I just changed it to a tiny length bar.

I agree it is really hard to change yourself though!

Good luck! You will love it!