Help me convince dh this is normal....

[BrightSparkles]

I haven't worried about waxing or shaving down there for sometime. I do my bikini line and that's it. Dh is convinced this isn't normal. He is convinced that EVERYONE had a Brazilian. It seriously doesn't worry me. The only one it worries is him.
Tell me I'm not the only one who really isn't worried about it growing (but do the bikini line)

[nothing2lose]

Tell him hairless vaginas are for prepubescent girls.

Real women have hair.

[Rowellen]

What N2L said. And besides - ouch! And it looks gross growing back (especially with my tiger stripes lol!). No brazilians here.

[Artechim]

Porn is getting a lot of blame for the desire for hairless pubic areas, but the only time I have ever thought that maybe I should remove my pubic hair is when I was having my first child and *everyone* on BB was talking about how they had removed or at least trimmed the area prior to the birth. I think there is more pressure from other woman and doing what everyone else does and the implication that if you have a hairy muff then you are not as clean/tidy than the next woman.

[Catastrophic]

I don't touch it!
If we weren't meant to have hair down there we wouldn't ;-)

(That and I'm too lazy and don't want to inflict pain)

[Astrid]

No Brazilian here. Won't have one for various reasons. Just everyday basic bikini and only when I need to, or for a special occasion.

[Santosha]

Normal. Completely normal... since that is how you were designed! I do nothing except the occasional bikini line trim IF I am going to be wearing a bikini.

[Teeki]

If it were up to me I'd never touch it, except if I'm wearing bathers or something I'd do a bikini fix up. DH likes it gone every now and then so he does it himself - if all I have to do is lie back and read a book he can go ahead

[Sopdet]

I do go hairless in summer, but I don't have a lot of hair (don't actually have to do bikini line as there isn't really hair along the creases).

In winter I'm trimmed.

I prefer a man to be trimmed. I had an x who did the whole wax thing (back, sack & crack).

[Phteven]

Normal is doing what you want to do with your own body

Bikini waxes and Brazilians 'behind rise in STI warts' - Telegraph

[AnyDream]

Au naturel here.

If EVERYONE has a Brazillian, then he should too. Arse crack and all. Once he's had his done, he can then tell you whether it's "normal" or not.

[LimeSlice]

No full brazillian here either.

Barely touch it at all except to trim in winter; bikini line or a bit more in summer.

You are normal, your DH on the other hand seems to be putting too much stock in glossy magazines.

[fionas]

Completely normal to me but ...

can we do a poll? I'd be interested in the results as I'm curious as to whether I'm completely in the minority.

[nothing2lose]

You could also ask him if he expects his mother or your daughters (when they hit puberty) to have Brazillians?

[Emma09]

I trim up the whole area with a battery operated trimmer.
Suits me as I prefer hair, but like to be neat :-)

[leckert]

I'm too slack to even do bikini line but that's as far as I'd go.

[~Hestia~]

No Brazilian here either.

[BrightSparkles]

Completely normal to me but ...

can we do a poll? I'd be interested in the results as I'm curious as to whether I'm completely in the minority.

I'm on my phone so don't think I can set up a poll on here?? Happy if someone else can set one up