I had beautifully long natural nails, like you caro. I adored them. I don't have a great body, but my nails was my pride and joy. With the birth of my DD I cut them. I just found it hard (and icky) to put bumcream on and the stuff goes under the nail I keep mine short now, polished and clear paint, and I am enjoying them just as much. (can even pick dd's nose ) I do think that you can have a reasonable nail lenght, if you can manage. I could not cope with dd with my long nails. I think you should have them done (I will also go with the gel), try it and then see if you can manage