Why do people assume that matching sets are uncomfortable?

Yes, I have some that I rarely wear because they aren't fantasticly comfortable, but they're DH's "treat" undies LOL. But most of my undies match (well, they all match, but some are sets some were plain and bought in bulk) and about 90% are comfortable. Today I'm in black slinky undies with some lace detail and they are bliss!

As for black bottom/white top, well, they aren't see through! If one is a bit sheer, match to that. And the brastrap/vpl problem: I have the invisible bra/pants type thing in a SET. Just shop around. Have more underwear than clothes.

I have 100% cotton sets, synthetic sets, silk sets, lace sets, padded sets, plain sets, see-through sets, sets in all the colours of the world... so it just depends where my mood takes me! I wash in the machine on the wool or silk setting, dependingon the bra.

Figleaves is fantastic, but doesn't offer much in the padding department (not a problem here I don't think: I hate you all ) so I tend to prefer Max Cleavage, which does nice padded/gel sets.

I need nice undies. I am not a very sexy person so need all the help I can get: nice undies give me a confidence boost and I don't need to dress alluringly/****ty to feel attractive. Not that I'm allowed to wear short skirts at work, but those with breasts have them falling out of their tops... *bites tongue*.