Have changed my mind about ten times in the last 30 minutes.

Think I might start small and go get my make-up done. I have NEVER done this. About ten minutes ago I whacked on some new blue eyeshadow (hey, I thought I'd go out on a limb there) and my new plum lipstick (which actually I was wearing from the age of 15-35, just haven't in the last couple of years) ... and didn't know whether to laugh or cry. My mum always used to tell me I looked like a clown ... now I believe her. Also need to get my eyebrows done, far too chicken to pluck.

Yep, I kind of don't know where to start on the stylist thing Nai. I mean I don't want to look polished, I want to look a bit edgy but not trying too hard edgy. I know what you mean about black - it's great, but I'm a bit over it. And I have a reasonably corporate job so I tend to buy stuff that I can wear at work and at home with a result that some of my stuff isn't as adventurous as I'd like. And then when I have my hair cut, they just see corporate chick.

Geez, life was so much simpler when I was younger. Just buy a skirt from an op shop, chop it off as short as possible, throw on a leather biker jacket and some Doc Martens, get a really short haircut, done. I did wonder why not many guys came near me though!