What to wear? "Neat casual"

[purplepixie1978]

I'd go a knee-length dress or pants and a nice top. DH basically his work gear - pants and a button up shirt

[Marley&Me]

I would wear dark denim jeans, heels and a dressy top like a singlet with a bit of lace or something. The jeans will dull down the heels and lace (or whatever you choose) so you won't look overdone.

[Enchanted]

I'm with Tash. I usually wear a pair of dark jeans, heels and a cute top and some bling
DH usually wears a shirt, dark jeans also and his dress shoes.