The fetal specialist will confirm tommorrow what the ultrasound and dr have already told us. I was hoping to have the d&c this week but unfortunately the hospital want me to see their specialist prior to this. Yeah one day at a time is a nightmare, I can't sleep or eat at the mo & just wish this pain would all go away. Thanks so much for talking to me about this. Its reallly hard when all your friends seem to have normal/no risk pregnancies and have a healthy baby at the end of it. I know it will get easier, I just wish I knew why this was happening but I guess I never will.