I dont want any more stress or anxiety either. I guess what I am asking is how can I find someone who will be an advocate for me now and in a future pregnancy? I just feel like everyone I saw at the hospital I went to would pass the buck because there was no one person responsible for my care. Should I find an obstetrician now or go to my old GP? When pregnant with Lola I was told that I had to go to the hospital I went to because they were the only ones that would take me however now I have found out that that is not true.