As far as future pregnancies go, if you want continuity of care, you have a few options. One options is to go private with an obstetrician; this will mean all of your antenatal care will be from the same person, with your care during the birth begin from the midwives at whichever hospital your OB referes you too, and possibly/probably your OB, depending on his policies.

Your second options, if you have access to it, is to find a hospital where the midwives follow a Caseload model of care - you will be allocated to one midwife or a small team of midwives, all of whom will be responsible for your antenatal care, and at least one of whom will usually be there for your birth.

Your third option is to look at shared GP/hospital care - your GP can do most or all of your antenatal care, but most likely will not be involbed in the birth.

Your fourth option would be to consider an independent midwife. An independent midwife can do all of your antenatal care; can provide full care during a home birth; or can be there as a support person (but not your primary clinician) during a hospitl birth. Although this may not be an option to you after next year, when independent midwives will no longer be allowed to be registered due to the insurance crisis.

As far as whether the hospital is telling the truth, autopsies can take a long time, but I understand that when trust is already an issue between yourself and the hospital, it is easy to be skeptical. If you want to know for sure what went on diuring your antenatal care and birth, be aware that you do have a right to see the records and documentation of your antenatal care and birth. Some hospitals may charge a fee to copy them and make them available to you, but they must make them available to you if you request it. If you choose to go down that road, you can apply to have copies sent to you, and once you have them, make an appointment with an obstetrician or an independent midwife that you trust to go over them and discuss their content. Midwives, obstetricians and nurses use particular terminology that can be hard to understand if you aren't trained; even words that mean something in general conversation can mean something quite different in "medical-speak". You should have someone who knows the language help you decipher them.

Hope this helps.