You can ring up where Lola's autopsy is taken place and ask for when they think it would be available. ( I also did this)
I think this is a good idea. If nothing else, it will help allay your fears that information is being with held from you or that the hospital is stalling to cover itself.

I also think Schmickers advice about getting some independent support is good. Get your antenatal and birth notes, and the autopsy results and get some more opinions.

While we don't know what went wrong to cause this horrible outcome, I think it's fair to assume that you may well be given the sanitised version if your only source of information is the people who were involved in your care. So from that perspective alone it makes sense to get some independent opinions.

I read your blog last week and I'm so sorry for the loss of baby Lola. I hope you can find some closure and some answers