I am sorry for all your losses no one should ever have to lose a child, I am not going to even pretend to know what you have been though...

I know this is posted in the support section, but I have a few questions if anyone cares to answer, if not you can tell me to bugger off and I will...

How do you want your IRL friends to act around you I am never sure what to do or say, I feel like they wouldnt want me around because I have been blessed with 4 healthy babies... I feel guilty that I have been given so many when others have had theirs taken away way too soon....

What about if your pregnant at the time would you mind a pregnant belly visiting you letting you cry on their pregnant shoulder, or is it best to keep your pregnant self away...

Same if you have a newborn / young baby do I stay away or come anyway, or would that make all so much worse...

Like I said I dont mind if you tell me to bugger off that I am out of place, but I just never know what the right thing to do is...