Thank you so much to everyone, your replies mean so much to me. DH went down yesterday and spoke to the caretakers and cleaned Emmanuel's headstone. They said they have had a few headstones vandalised so DH went back down when it got dark, he was hoping to catch them. I was sick to the stomach all day yesterday, feeling so much anger towards whoever did this then falling in a a heap in tears. Feeling better today, going down later to see my little boy. I just felt like my baby was hurt and just wanted to cuddle him.
Thank you again for your kind words.

Regards,
Dianne