Dianne I am so sorry you have to deal with this on top of the loss of your little one. I couldn't begin to imagine the distress you would be feeling. I am terrified every time I leave the house for any length of time that something will happen to Caitlyn's ashes while I am away I hope your DH is ok too - they often have to do the hard stuff for us without recognition of how much it hurts them too. Give him a big cuddle and know Emmanuel is safe and secure - those disrespectful people earthside can never harm your baby