I'm so sorry you lost your little Oliver.

Thank you so much for posting your video. It was incredibly brave of you. I really appreciated your honesty. Whilst no one should have to lose a child, its comforting to know there are people like you willing to share your stories with us to help us with ours. I can relate to all of what you said. I find writing in a journal quite carthartic and talking to others in the same boat helps too. People fortunate enough not to have lost a child can offer only so much support. I find I get more comfort and support from those who have gone through this than those who've never experienced such loss. If you ever do make the video of what not to say to people in our situation, I can give you a couple of the most insensitive things to say ever that were said to me! My favourite offensive words come from pregnant women who know you've just lost your baby and still grizzle about how uncomfortable and large they are. THINK people THINK!
Anyway, thanks again for sharing your story. Its helped me