On the other side...a friend's debrief.

[Tegam]

As said above, i think that the only thing left for you to do is remember that this will never go away. That Zara was a beautiful little girl that her mumma will never forget, even as those around her forget. Talk about her, remember her. Celebrate her.

Thank you for being such a wonderful friend. I know thats not why you have written your post above but you really should be proud of yourself!

Remember you are greiving too and you may need to take a break at some point. Thats ok, she has family and a DH. Its not all up to you!

RIP little Zara, im sorry that you couldnt stay for longer!

[Stevie]

Thank you for being such a wonderful friend. I know thats not why you have written your post above but you really should be proud of yourself!!

I think you are an amzing person.
I think what the others have said is very true, never forget. Always remember, your BF will be forever grateful to you.

RIP Miss Zara, Fly free and watch over your Mummy, Daddy and Big Sister.

Myheart is aching for your BF, they are in my thoughts and prayers.
xx

[Elocin]

You are such a wonderful friend, absolutely amazing.

I am in tears reading your friends story... my heart is breaking for them both.

Fly fry gorgeous angel Zara

xo

[Epacris]

Thank you for sharing your story. Thinking of you and your friends and darling baby Zara Lily. Sending all of you all my strength and warmth.

Fly free baby girl.

Rachel.

[Sterla]

I am so sorry for your friends loss - life is so unfair.

You sound like the sweetest, most supportive, genuine friend... your friend is very lucky to have you, especially at this difficult time.

RIP beautiful Zara, and send strength and support to you and Zara's family.

[Spring Angel]

I know that after loosing my son, it was friends just like you that helped me get through. Keep doing what your doing. Offer help (practical help like cooking and minding her other DD are great) hold her as she cries, let her talk about Zara but also respect when she needs space and doesn't feel like talking.

Rest peacefully dear little Zara.

Spring xx

[TeniBear]

Oh I wish I had a friend like you! What a great friend you are You did the exact right thing.

Rest in Peace little Zara, may you dance with all the other Angel Babies Bella, and big hugs to her mummy and daddy, too.

[Kazbah]

Oh Bella I am lighting a candle for Zara Lily tonight. You are an amazing friend - I pray for your strength tonight and the coming week. Hold your baby, cuddle your DD and your DH.

You are an amazing friend, and I wish I had a friend like you when needed.

[Roryrory]

I am sorry your friend has to go through this

RIP baby girl

[ElleJay]

Oh your poor friend. You've done amazing, well done

[Jaycee]

I just wanted to say what a beautiful friend you are.
I am so very sorry for your friends loss, and I am so sorry for the grief you're feeling too
xxx

[Jewel]

I'm so so very sorry to hear of your friends loss.
You're are a truly wonderful, supportive, caring friend.


xox

[Queen]

Your poor friend

Thank you for sharing, you are a truly wonderful friend xoxo

RIP Zara fly free with angels xoxo