The day our babes were having their life support removed we were taken into a big room that had a futon. It was on the same floor as NICU. I'm not sure if the room was especially for this or not, but maybe it was. It was kind of away from the other rooms and you couldn't see in. It was nice to lay the futon out and lay with our bubs between us..

There was also a parents room up the other end which had a fold out double bed, ensuite and a small kitchen. We stayed there the night Taite had his operation and we were also taken there the day they died to bath them.. What you are suggesting would be fabulous.. It is so important to have the room for family, and it's nice to be able to sleep in the same bed as your partner..