for me although my heart ached I never shunned pg friends and family mysister gave birth to my 2nd nephew the day after Katy was born I didn't see him for 2 weeks but when I did he was a healing power for me..

but for someone else seeing a pg friend or a newborn can be too much a polite text or email never hurts to check .. a card in the mail saying you are thinking of them and when they are ready you will be there for them