Sending you big Fiona, praying for strength for you and your family to get through this. May your memories of Tre be close to your heart forever. Love and blessings.
I am so so sorry for the loss of your beautiful baby boy, Tre.
I was in tears just reading the headline and when I read your story, my heart broke for you and your family.
No woman should ever have to go through what you are going through. It is so cruel.
You mentioned that lots of people seem to act as if you had never been pregnant and had never given birth to your son. I guess they are very cautious and don't want to bring up painful feelings for you. It is so hard to know how to act in such a situation. I guess some people are also more inclined to talk about it then others and they might just assume that you would bring it up if you wanted to talk about it?
But you have been pregnant. You have carried your gorgeous boy for 36 very special weeks. In those weeks you have given him the best of you. Please do not feel guilt. What has happened is not your fault. I am sure he felt how much he was loved and wanted, even if he never got to "meet" you. He will forever be a part of you.
You ARE a mother. And a most wonderful at that. You have given this special little boy more love in those few weeks before he was born than some unfortunate children receive in a lifetime.
I hope that now that your body knows how to get pregnant, a second pregnancy will not be too far off and that it will be a healing process for you. Your next child will have the most wonderful guardian angel watching over him or her.
All my love, Sasa
Last edited by sunshine_sieben; February 1st, 2010 at 10:28 AM.
Fiona, praying for strength for you and your family to get through this. May your memories of Tre be close to your heart forever. Love and blessings.
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