Tre Our Son Stillborn at 36weeks

[~Hestia~]

I am so sorry for your loss. I'm in tears & my heart is breaking for you. Thank you for sharing your story. You are such a strong woman.

[sloane]

fiona i am so sorry for the loss of your precious tre . i wish it was a happier reason that brings you to be part of our BB community but i hope you find comfort & support here.

thank you for choosing to share your story with us, i hope it helps in some way to help you on your journey.

[AliBaby]

That is just heartbreaking

I have my DP on the lounge next to me and I dont normally tell himabout what is ritten on BB but I jsut told him your storyand he said he is heartbroken for you, your DH and your families. It is such a cruel and tragic thing to have your baby taken from you. I am sure the funeral was beaiutiful and that Tre know he is very much loved and always in your hearts.

You will get plenty of support at BellyBelly and I hope that you stick around for your TTC and get all teh support you can. This community is like know other.

[Isadora]

This is just heart wrenching I am so devastated for you Fiona. I will be thinking of you and your husband xox

[Inanna]

Welcome to Belly Belly my love - I am so sorry it's under such difficult circumstances.
Thankyou for sharing your story with us. I am just so very sad that your little boy couldn't stay with you. Big cuddles my love - I am glad you have found us. I know you will receive much loving support on here.

[Lolli]

Words can't begin to express how sad I am for you Fiona. What a brave, strong woman you are.

Thinking of you, and Gav, and Tre. Bless your little angel. I sincerley hope you find the love and support you need here. Welcome to BB

[tippytoes]

Dear Fiona,
I am glad you have found BB. There are so many lovely supportive women here .
I am so so sorry your darling Tre passed away. So devastating. I think you are very brave to tell your story. I know the pain won't ever leave you, but I hope you find happiness again soon.There aren't really any words I can say to make it better... I think you'll find the support you'll get here on BB will be a great help to you, as it has been for so many women
Rach xx

[Fiona Sweetman]

Thankyou everyone for you support and kind words. Today it has been 4months and to read your threads has made me feel better. It was funny at work today a lady from Sids phoned me (someone had contacted her?) and i finally spoke to someone so hopefully i will keep that up.

I really think that it would be good for my husband to talk to someone from Sids to as he has zero support... you know what men are like. I will mention it to him when he returns from sea.

I'm hoping i won't be entering the TTC forum... but after taking so long the first time maybe i'll be there, but must think positively. If anyone has been through a still birth and wants to chat, i'd love to talk.

Have a lovley evening
love Fi

Milko is my labrador but a huge part of our family...

[diannescruffy]

I hope your DH can get to talk to someone also, men often keep their grief to themselves. I'm here anytime you would like to chat hun. Take care.
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Regards,
Dianne

[lauren22]

Im so sorry for losing your sweet son, I have lit a candle for him
I hope whenever you feel like TTC it happens super fast for you
Fly free sweet angel Tre
All my love
xx

[Fiona Sweetman]

I hope your DH can get to talk to someone also, men often keep their grief to themselves. I'm here anytime you would like to chat hun. Take care.
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Regards,
Dianne

Thanks Diannne when did you loose your baby sounds like you have had healthy baby/ies since? it the hardest thing ever

[Fiona Sweetman]

Im so sorry for losing your sweet son, I have lit a candle for him
I hope whenever you feel like TTC it happens super fast for you
Fly free sweet angel Tre
All my love
xx

Thanks Lauren for lighting the candle that's lovley. What brings you to belly belly are you preg or ttc?

[ladybird11]

You must be the strongest and bravest woman I know.

I have tears in my eyes and can't begin to imagine how awful that experience was for you and your DH.

Huge hugs - I'm so glad you have found us at BB, you have come to the right place.

[Fiona Sweetman]

You must be the strongest and bravest woman I know.

I have tears in my eyes and can't begin to imagine how awful that experience was for you and your DH.

Huge hugs - I'm so glad you have found us at BB, you have come to the right place.

Thanks i feel more that i need to talk rather than brave, but nice of you to say though! Yes i'm glad i have come to BB, everyone seems very supportive and all in there on journey of baby making... not an easy one can so easily take over your life.

[Jas]

I am so so sorry for the loss of your son there are no words

[Nicole S]

Just
You are truly amazing and such a strong women to post the loss of your baby boy.
Welcome to BB and know that there are a bunch of great ladies in here to support you on your journey.
xx

[Inanna]

Fiona the TTC after loss forum is for women who have said goodbye & are wanting to be pregnant again. It can be a great place to start so that you can chat with others who have journeyed a similar road. Big hugs again...

[Fiona Sweetman]

Fiona the TTC after loss forum is for women who have said goodbye & are wanting to be pregnant again. It can be a great place to start so that you can chat with others who have journeyed a similar road. Big hugs again...

Thanks for the helpful advice Inanna, i will have a look.. sounds ideal