I would recommend talking to your doctor and going from there, e.g. getting referrals to specialists. It will probably take quite a long time and you'll have to have counselling and stuff, as it is a major thing to do, but if it really is the right thing for both your physical and mental health, then you should be able to get it done. Everyone is different, so just because this is probably not the right thing for a majority of women your age doesn't mean that it's not right for you.
I agree, it will more than likely be a challenge, and may be a log journey to getting it done because of your age, but if its the right thing to do then yes Im sure it can be done. Goodluck
But I would also be having a chat with your dr about any other options you could try in the meantime.