No probs Shell, I didn't want my DH to have a vasectomy as I've had breast cancer and if (God forbid) anything happened to me in the future and he remarried then I would want him to have his options open. I understand that know one can see into a crystal ball and even though he says I'm being silly and he wouldn't want anymore children he may marry a younger woman and she may want children. I have a very close friend who married an older man and he had had a vasectomy in an earlier marriage, the reversal didn't work and sadly they could not make a family together.

I know I'm reading waaaaay to much into things but it's just my thing and I KNOW my days of having baby's are over so I want to do this for us.