Thank you so much for the reply .I hope everything goes well for you, i can't imagine how scary it would be to make the appointment to have something done ,its a big deal , it is also something that means a lot to you for many reasons so i can only imagine that would make it harder for you ! I can understand why you are choosing to have the operation and i hope your DH knows what a wonderful, beautiful , caring Partner he has ! It's an amazing thing you are doing ..Good luck , i hope everything goes smoothly for you xx