thanks for replying. It is good to hear from someone who has had it done and had almost no trouble. As I am having a c/s it will just get done then so I don't have to worry about general or even day surgery...

I know that physically I can't go through another pregnancy and financially we can't either. So I am ok in that area.

I hope my monthlies stay away that long /just a tmi question.. Has your actual period changed as in flow length ect? I understand it will be different for everyone though. I was really out of whack before I fell pregnant this time but before that I was fairly regular and 3-5 day length..