You cant be considered for a vasectomy till you are over 30 and have 1 biological child, so I been told...
I wonder if we could sue for discrimination over that. If we did decide to have another child (and the chances are very slim) it would be DH's decision. I don't enjoy pregnancy. I am 90% sure that I do not want to do it again. Physically I doubt that my body would handle another baby and it is not fair on my other children for me to be bedridden for months.

The only problem is that DH is 23. I am willing to give it 5 years after Miss L arrives to make a final decision, but why should a family be penalised for finishing their family early? Even if DH and I were to split he does not want children with another woman. He has said that if he and I split and he was paying CS (and he would) on 3 or 4 children there is no way he would be bringing more into the world, and that is his personal opinion, which I respect.

I just don't understand why we are continually penalised for having our family young.