We knew when Moo was a year old we wanted just one more child, after that we always said DH would get the snip. When Buster arrived 18 months later I was hesitant for a little while...but in the end I was very happy for DH to go ahead with it. It still took at least a year thanks to my husband being a procrastinator, losing referrals and needing to organise his shifts as his was done under a general. If we were younger (DH is over 40) it's possible we would have waited but we are very happy with our decision and I'm sure the result would be the same.
My DH has just had a vasectomy and DD 2 is 6 mo. We decided that given our history of m/c and infertility issues that We/I couldn't go through what we have been through to try for another baby and also our ages, we more my DH who is 42.
The private practice where my DH had the procedure had a pre op appt with him to discuss it all and confirm this is what we definitely wanted. You could always have the pre op chat and go from there. GL
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