Wow... what a situation. From what you've said about D and how well you know her, I'd personally probably do it. That is just me though. As for money, if she does get a job then board is a good thing for her to learn about anyway and it wouldn't be a bad thing. I don't think she'd even mind from what you have said... in fact I think that she'd just be very appreciative and in fact could be a good influence on Bella by the sounds of her. Also, just check with Centrelink to see if you can get any assistance for her?? You might be entitled to something?? Particularly if she doesn't find a job.

to you, you are so lovely. Let us know how you go and good luck with your decision.