The boy has breached the Undertaking

[Calluna]

If it's the application I'm thinking of- you answer random questions about random friends and then the friend the question was about gets a post on thier wall.
Hope that makes sense....
So she wouldn't have had to look at his profile to see it. But her DS would have to be friends with the boy.

Dianne- I agree with the others in that you need to block him from yours and DS's accounts though

ETA- guess it's not the one I thought then...

[PumpkinZulu]

Also, why not go one further and delete him, not just block. I mean, I can't see all of this blowing over one day and your DS and him will want to be friends again. If your DS isn't on his friends list (blocked or not) the application cannot access your DS profile to put him in the random questions in the first place, problem solved. If this boy has such an issue with being a decent person, may as well take away all temptation for him to hurt you or your DS.

[*LittleMissSummer*]

This is why i dont think teenagers should be using these sorts of websites.

My 14 yo niece is having issues with girls hacking into her FB, bebo and other networking sites and saying hideous horrible things about her and sending messages pretending to be her to other people which caused a huge fight at school.

Some parents just dont care what their kids get up to online.

hope it blows over soon.

[diannescruffy]

I'm not sure how it works, DS has this boy blocked but obviously the boy still has DS on his friends list. I will get DS to delete him altogether when he gets home.

Regards,
Dianne

[PumpkinZulu]

Yep definately get DS to simply delete him, like I said, I can't see the point in keeping any form of contact with him, this boy will clearly just abuse it.

[diannescruffy]

If DS deletes him will he be removed from the boys friends list or would the boy have to also delete DS?

Regards,
Dianne

[PumpkinZulu]

Nope, as soon as your DS deletes him, your DS will be removed from this kids FB also. Combine that with being blocked, and make sure your DS does not share any mutual friends on FB (it says whether he does or not if you go to this kids FB page when logged in as your DS, there will be a box above the normal friends box with 'mutual friends'), and there is no way he can get to him, learn anything about your DS life or anything via FB.