Thanks Sarah and Sherie,

Sarah, I have been a little more tired lately and there was a fear of GD, so there has been a lot more appt's and tests... She doesn't come to those... but to the Ultrasounds and every now and then, the GP visits.

Sherie, I think that's a great idea. It's all pretty much about the baby and while we are making sure there is still "just us" time, we don't speak about anything in the future without including the baby. I'll have a look at what's around and try to get involved with something that's for her.

It's just so confusing... The last thing I want is for her to feel like she is any different to us, because she's not. But I guess when you look at it as a 9 year old, it probably appears completely different. And others don't make it any better, Our families are constantly asking and talking about the baby and I suppose that would have to affect her in some way, that it's not only her anymore... Perhaps I should talk to them all too and make sure they still involve her and remember she is still there. I guess that's something I never really thought about until now...