Oh Tinks I freakin hope so cause things are seriously going to come to a head in this house soon too.

My DS is also 14 and a right royal #$%$@$ %$#@^ (insert your own colourful description here)

I have found some serious boundries are needed for him with big time consequences if he breaks them. A biggie for us is the hitting siblings - he is 6ft eats like a horse and doesnt realise how strong he is either, and another is disrespecting me. His Dad is big on this one.
Facebook and social life are his main currency so these are the first things to go if he gets too big for his boots.

I do know that he has what I can only describe as PMS symptons.
He has days of been tolerable then he goes through about a week of absolute hell. He has been reduced to tears on some days too so obviously very hormonal.
His skin gets pretty bad at these times too so im thinking he has these sudden hormone surges and he just cant control or know what to do with himself.

My only advice chick would be the tighten up the boundries and trying to get him to recognise when he is feeling overwhelmed and angry to take himself away for time out.

Good luck love, I know its hard and I truely believe we will come out the other side. (I have too its how I cope with it )
Do let me know if you find some miracle cure for them though wont you??