I am in need of a bit of help. DSD is having her second period and both this time and last time she has mostly not worn the pads or tampons I have bought for her. She just chucks the very bloody clothes in the dirty washing basket.

She also doesn't wear them at her mother's house either(she lives with us). Her mother and I have both spoken to her (separately) about how important it is.

I have bought her about 6 different types to try and find which one she likes. I also got her mini tampons and 10 pairs of dark underwear.

How can I make her wear them?

DH has suggested that we get her do wash everything herself, but I am more concerned that she will bleed through her clothes at school and others will see. She also doesn't seem to grasp that it is a hygeine issue.

HELP!!!!