She shouldn't have to deal with that, they have enough to deal with as it is. It's like this kid we saw the other day with a big mohawk and a very interesting dress sense. I said to Andy if that's the worst we have to deal with then I would allow either of the boys to do this if it meant they weren't doing drugs!! Lay off the things which allow them to express themselves without hurting anyone else or offending anyone else and keeps them off drugs which they use to "express" themselves!!