Absolutely Diane, but the issue I think Misty and myself were alluding to isn't the friend broaching Fiona or DSD. It is that at the time DSD broke Fiona's trust, Fiona passed the concerns on to her friend and left it up to her friends judgement if she wished to use DSD for babysitting her children again. It was only when (and how much time had elapsed is irrelevant) that friend called again to enquire about DSD babysitting that Fiona said what amounted to "I don't trust DSD with my daughter, so I don't want you to trust her with your children either".