Stick to your guns Jackie - OMG what is going on with some mothers? I think it is TOTALLY inappropriate, for all the reasons already stated.

If they start doing all that stuff now - what is there to look forward to? Sleeping (having sex or not) around with boys at that age will give them a completely blase' attitude towards the situation. What happened to teaching about the importance of trust and your body being a temple etc etc blah, blah, blah YKWIM? Being READY for that kind of commitment.

You know - I have noticed around me SO MANY mothers that are determined that their daughters get boyfriends really young, like it is some kind of achievement. For pity's sake this craps me off.