Well DD 15, has got herself a boyfriend, no issues with that at all, I knew the day would come.
Anyway, her best friend is going out with her bf's best friend which is also great, but here comes my problem.....
Her best friends Mum!!
A few weeks ago the mum arranged for them to watch DVD's at her place and had arranged with the boys to sleep over, she called me and told me about it, taking for granted that I would let DD sleep over as wel (DD hadn't even been told about the arrangement yetl, the 4 kids sleeping in the lounge, well, I kind of had a problem with it, said she could watch the DVD's but that i was picking her up at 11pm. I just thought it was a stupid idea, to let 4 teenagers with raging hormones spend the night together.... guess I might be old fashioned or something.
Anyway, this very same mum is now organising a birthday party for her DD, a sleepover, with the boys. Once again I've said no, she can go to the party and I'll pick her up later.
The mum just can't understand why I wont let DD sleepover with the boys, she even lets her DD sleep at the the bf's house....hello!
My question is, am I being unreasonable here???
I feel bad, because I know DD wont be happy about not being able to stay the night, but I just don't want to put her in a situation where she may be pressured into doing something she doesn't want to, especially as her friend and her bf are very much closer as DD is with her bf..
So, am I being unreasonable??