its been a roller coaster since ive last wrote on this thread but lately we been using a option where if shes open and honest with her we will let her do some things cause we found the grounded sending her to room just didnt work all it did was make her to be an angry little girl i thought she was just probably had enough shes dealing with highschool and then to come home and fight everyday it was becoming a nightmare for everyone .somedays its crazy and i know its going to get worse but all i can do is try to be there for her which sometimes she looks at me and looks like she hates me . its not easy but its a roller coaster everyday
im going to try to choc biccies great idea