DS wasn't there, he really wants to go and see him but he'll be in intensive care for a while. The boys sister saw it happen and she is just a mess, her and her brother havn't had a good relationship with their mum for many years so maybe it was my motherly instincts taking over, I hugged her and she cried in my arms, I'm sure she's still in shock. DS and his friends have made up a massive card for their mate and I think it helped them debrief too. It's really heartbreaking seeing others in so much pain and there's nothing you can do.

Regards,
Dianne