If he wants to do it, then trying to stop him is probably not the answer. Filling his bedroom with condoms is going to be the way to go. I agree with Jennifer that you should nurture the relationship. Don't fight it, no matter what you've heard about her, or what you think. Support it - always offer for them to stay at yours, so that if they're doing it, you know it's nearby. And really really stress to him to make it safe.
What does your DH say?
Get him to talk to him 'man to man' and explain some of the diseases and reputations he could get sleeping around. the rumor mill can do alot of damage if someone wants revenge If she or to just cause trouble.
If people are warning you about her it must be pretty well known what sort of girl she is. Does he know about her reputation, if so, what are his thoughts about being associated with someone like this.
It is hard having teenagers and coming out the other side sane.
Ask him if when he marries does he want someone who has a reputation of sleeping around. If not, then he knows what his actions should be. You cannot sleep around then expect to find someone who hasn't....double standard in my books.
I agree with Rivlas, has your DH sat down with him and had a 'man to man' talk. I think its really important that your DS is doing it because he wants to and his GF isn't filling his head and making him think he wants something that he doesn't. It sounds to me that his GF hasn't been well educated about having sex, its sad to hear that a 15 yo girl has such a bad reputation.
This situation reminds me of my brother, he went and stayed with his dad and met a girl a year older than him who came across as being a sweet girl but she was really not at all. She played him, made my brother sleep with her and then dumped him the next day breaking his heart. Sometimes it can be just a game and i really don't trust this girl even though i dont know her, a week is too soon to be thinking of sex.
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