The one by Kaz Cooke is Girl Stuff and is great. I agree Alibaby Girlosophy is great. My daughter has both of these books.

For the mumma bears - Celebrating girls, which I have read, and found to be life changing, and Embracing Persophone by Virginia Beane Rutter (I'm searching for a copy of this one!) Embracing persophone is aimed in particular at the relationship between teenage girls and their mothers.

oh its a fun filled time isnt it.