Some great ideas in here and i have used mostly all of them over the years with my DS, i like the idea of walking with them and asking them what they feel about that person etc, good idea

After watching Oprah once though all my thoughts were out the window on my DS soaking any of what i said in! Every kid let them in or got in the car on that show!

Another one to tell your kids is 'Adults would never ask a child to find there dog or ask for directions anywhere, they would ask another adult'.

I have also told my DS if anyone ever grabs him to drop to the ground with all his weight and yell 'this is not my parent' over and over rather than yell 'help'