Awwww hugs Trish!!

I don't have any words of advice (after all, I've never had to deal with teenage boys).

Just wanted to say that I hope you can find a happy medium with Joel. Must be soooo hard with teenagers... they wanna rule the world (and think they can) but they're still kids. Hormones don't help anger issues. What about just taking him to the GP? Maybe the ADHD has something to do with it??
Again... I've got no clue!

Hugs matey!

(PS... uno who we will all be turning to when our kids become teenagers?? LOL)