I bought DSD crop tops a few months ago because I noticed she was startif to develop and I didn't want it to become a big deal. She wears them most of the time at our place now. I didn't want bras to become a big deal. My mum waited until I was 13 and needed them and I hated going to the shop to buy my first bra. It was so embarrassing. I wanted dsd to get used to the idea slowly. Plus under some of her tops she show more than others and the extra layer really helps to smooth things over. At her age she will probably think its pretty cool and that's a nice moment to share. The you can just change the tops. Look more bra like and change to a bra certaimwhen it's needed without it becoming a big deal.

I know it's my issue and worry which has made me behave that way. But hopefully she feels okay about herself and her body. I know she hasnt asked her mother to buy her any yet, although we have suggested it. Her mother obviously hasn't noticed or suggested it. Certain materials they make some clothes with these days really seem to cling and make it more noticeable.