Thankyou thankyou thankyou for all your helpful replies Some of those things I hadn't even thought of. Such as a present from bubs for Moo and to not be holding the baby when he comes in. I do have Toddler Tactics so will have a look in there. Will get some special books for him when DH gets paid again. We've been talking about the baby and showing him pics of when I was pregnant with him, he's come to all appts and scans so far (thoguh he did get very upset about someone touching Mummy )

Thankyou again, any other experiences most welcome!